Orang ketiga.

Salam,

Aktiviti berblogging sudah menjadi sangat perlahan semenjak dua menjak ini. Sebenarnya niat untuk berblogging pada awal- awal lagi adalah lebih kepada peringatan untuk diri sendiri.. tazkirah dan pesanan supaya diri tidak lupa. Maklumlah diri sudah berada di rantau orang, bujang pulak tu! tiada orang yang ingin mengingatkan. Kalau pun ada, amat jarang berjumpa.

Negara Jepun mungkin tidak lagi dalam bertimbangan untuk phd. Sangat bersimpati dengan mangsa Tsunami dan gempa bumi. Semoga Allah berikan mereka hidayah, dan mampu pulih semula. Pencemaran radioaktif membuat fikiran berada dalam dilema. Maaf Umeda dan Maki Sensei, mungkin jodoh phdku bukan di Harajuku.

Alhamdulillah, rezeki bakal anak mungkin, akan kembali semula ke UF pada tahun ini. Semoga dipermudahkan Allah urusan. Semoga ayahnya ini menjadi lebih baik dan maju kehadapan. Sudah tiba masanya memberikan zaman keanak-anakan ini kepada orang yang lebih berhak. Kepada orang ketiga yang cilik. :)

nak cuba..

Salam,

I understand the circumstances of my action by deactivating my fb account, but still I would like to try it.

I noticed on early Jan 2011, I got so many forwarded email and fake news about fb is closing down. Neither I care and thought it does not matter.

Okay, this is a challenge for me and my wife, to see how long we can competing on deactivated the account.

Its already almost one day since the event, and hoping by the time, we can re-evaluate the time we use on fb, and use time more efficiently.

I'm just a normal person, without me, no different will it make on fb. But my social live definitely will be different!

Till then, have a good one!

Chapter Baru, by default

 

Salam,

Saya menulis selepas hampir 3 bulan setelah menjadi seorang suami. Hidup nyata rasa berbeza. Terlalu awal untuk dikongsikan bersama. Sememangnya mengenali pasangan ada peringkatnya, seperti mengambil SPM juga. Seterusnya sijil, diploma, ijazah, master dan phd. Mengenali itu tidak mudah dan tidak mengenal lelah, kerana jika hati mahu, semua jadi.

Fikiran kini merasa amat tenang. Tiada lagi jiwa bergelora. Hampir-hampir semua kenalan yang dikenali selepas mengakad janji tidak diingati nama dan muka, nyata petanda pencarian penghuni hati sudah pun berakhir.

Alhamdulilah, aku sudah berjumpa “Hawa”ku. Dialah penenang jiwa dan hati, bukannya si jelita pemening kepala. Aku bersyukur.

Chapter baru by default kerana kehidupan bujang telah tamat, kini kehidupan berdua, suka dan berduka dikongsi. Alhamdulllah.

Belum bersedia rasanya untuk menulis hal-hal berkaitan hidup di blog terlalu panjang, kerana ia pasti berbau jiwang dan cinta semata. Insyallah, kini sedang sibuk sedaya upaya untuk melanjutkan pengajian dalam peringkat phd.

Doa-doakan tuntas.

Msc Brotherhood.

 

Salam,

My parent did not came for my Msc graduation last August not because of several reasons. One rational was the cost is not that cheap if they want to travel from Malaysia to UF. The time zone  different is about 12 hours, and I think its better for them to save the money for pilgrim. Plus, with their ages >50 years, to travel on plane about 24 hours is not the best things to do especially if it is their 1st time. Whatever the reasons, it has been made, and all of us are happy with it.

August 7th arrived, and so do all the family members at O’cornell center, the official hall for the commencement ceremony. I came alone, after Rafe Biswas, a phd student that I stay at his place for the last week at Gainvesville drop me off at the parking.

Yes, I have attending two same occasion at the same place for my former roomies. Adeel Ahmed and Arif O for their Msc at different semester. You can say it were also my unofficial rehearsal with my mind saying many times,

“You will be one of the chosen to walk on the stage soon. Keep the  engine running and faster”.

Alhamdulillah, even though my family members did not came, but the brotherhoods in Islam never let me alone to celebrate. I would like to thanks all of you for showing up during that day.

If I was crying (which I obviously did not because I’m a man ) it will be tears of happiness. Miss you guys a lot. Keep in touch, ya!

Towards Sakinah (Peacefulness)

The story is not about a best friend being together, 

nor the best couple in the word matching each other,

its a sacred promise to unify the survivors, 

from just a normal friend,
to the best friend for the entire life.

Its a point to say goodbye for many ends, 

that astray the singles to find the doors, 

a key to escape a cold and lonely journey, 

towards blessfull life with new color
we not alone stepping together.

It is indeed a lottery ticket, 

for opposite gender obtaining many best, 

the best title and the best rest, 

with hoping for His guidance, merciful and love, 

counting steps to heaven and breathing air of perfection.

Married is not a small word, 

its compilation of action, 

a million trust without a dust of doubt, 

true promises to share and live,

completing each other in many ways, 

because if I'm still alone,  
forever will never perfect.

I'm loving you.

UnDaNGaN MajLiS PeRkAhWiNaN

Time	October 9 at 12:00pm - November 21 at 5:00pm
Location	9 hb Oct 2010 di Kelate (perempuan) & 21hb Nov 2010 di Perok (lelaki)
Created By	Fadhli Atari
	Kami dengan penuh rasa kesyukuran dan dengan keizinanNya ke atas hambaNya, mempersilakan jemputan yang dihormati kerana hajat di hati mengadakan tambatan janji, izin berwali, ijab bersaksi bertaqlik diri,                   Mohamad Fadhli b Mad' Atari                               dengan                Tengku Fahima Azira bt Tuan Mat                                                             bertempat di             * LOT 109, Kampung Sabak, 16100 Kota Bharu, Kelantan --> (Perempuan)                                 DAN * 84; Kampung Teluk Buluh, 36400 Hutan Melintang, Perak --> (Lelaki) Untuk membolehkan kad kahwin dihantar secara pos, alamat sahabat-sahabat semua adalah diperlukan. Boleh hantar terus kepada kami melalui fb atau sms. Kami akan follow up. :)                       ********************** " Ya Allah! Sesungguhnya hati kami ini bersatu dengan kasih sayangMu, bertemu di atas ketaatan terhadapMu, bersatu di jalan dakwahMu dan berjanji menegakkan agamaMu.. Maha Engkau perteguhkan tali ikatan di antara kami ini, Limpahkan kasih sayang di dalam hati kami, Engkau tunjukkanlah kami jalan hidayahMu, Sesungguhnya padaMu kami berserah dan tempat kami memohon pertolongan. Amin Ya Rabbal Alamin"

My walk.

August 7th 2010, my Msc commencement at O'connell center, UF. :D